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My daughter is smaller (4), and at the moment she really loves it when we do stuff together, so it's quite easy to get her to help by explaining that I need to do xyz this morning, if she gives me a hand we can do it quickly and then get the paints out. She doesn't really do much, but she'll help me put stuff in the washing machine, putting the powder in etc.
We only have two 'rules': that she hangs her coat up after nursery and that she keeps her toys in her bedroom. Mostly they are in boxes and she can bring two or three out into the living room where she place most, but if she wants more, she has to put some back. We usually pack up the toys together, but she does join in. I usually put a positive spin on it - if we're going to play with x, then we'll need more space, let's put y away and then we can have lots of room to get x out.She's mostly quite good about it. But they're not really 'chores' I don't suppose.
I gather from this that I can expect the spirit of co-operation to fall apart over the next couple of years?