It’s every parent’s duty to make sure their child grows up to be a geek.
One of the most important responsibilities of being a parent is making sure your child grows up to become a truthful, kind, and ethical person.
But as admirable as all that stuff is, there’s one trait that’s even more important to encourage. You need to make sure your children grow up to be geeks.
The geek will inherit the earth
It’s all very well encouraging your kids to become doctors, lawyers and architects, but geekdom is where the real money is.
Look at Bill Gates and Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg. Do you think they got where they are today by hard work, education, and natural intelligence? Of course not! Their success is all down to being able to recite the original episode order of Star Trek and be able to debate who would win in a fight: Batman or Spider-Man. They are geeks, and they are proud of it.
A geek is basically anyone who has an intense passion for something. You can be a Harry Potter geek, a lego geek or comicbook geek. You can even be a history geek, sports geek or a science geek. And these days being a geek isn’t even considered a bad thing. Being a geek is cool. No, honestly, it is.
It can be a little trickier however to foster geekyness if you have a daughter rather than a son. Society puts huge pressure on girls to go down the pink and sparkly route, so even more encouragement is needed to prod them in the right direction.
But it’s worth the effort. Developing passionate enthusiasms is a great way to combat the trend for kids to grow up too quickly. Let's face it, I’m 35 and haven’t grown up yet and I owe it all to Star Wars, superheroes, and computer games.
If it worked for me, it'll work for them too.
So find something your child has a passion for, and sit down with them and nurture it - be it dinosaurs, Dr Who, astronomy or ponies. They’ll more than likely emerge the other side a happier and more engaged person for it, and that can only be a good thing.
Photo: Dan Hughes Dan's daughter Amy
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13 April, 2011
Oh yes i agree 456738466547357365743655673465%! (1 of my Geek daughters just amended the percentage)
Despite being gUrls, my nine year old daughters love reading as well as writing comic books, avidly watch Freemans mind, and know all the new Doctor Who episodes off by heart. It's added advantage is that i have never had to deal with sparkly pink diaries or Camp Rock. They are currently building a city all over the house and have become dinosaurs... i will be showing them some old Godzilla films via youtube when they've finished. Geeks RULE.
mum
13 April, 2011
This made me laugh but I agree that geeks are cool. Thankfully my daughters are (mostly) past the pink and sparkly stuff and have moved on to much more healthy geeky pursuits.
13 April, 2011
I am not sure that girls are any less geeky. If your definition of being geeky is being passionate about something then girls are at least as Geeky, does an in-depth knowledge of barbie not count?
I am quite pro pink and sparkle for girls, but I do think my daughter's dinosaur obsession definitely counts and she is as big a reader as me.
I was a computer geek as child, programming was my favourite past-time to the extent that I taught myself the basics of Assembly language at 12.
So yes, as a self confessed geek, I very much hope our kids will follow in their parent's footsteps (hubby is a little Geeky too)
dad
13 April, 2011
I've yet to meet a girl with a passion for Barbie that I personally would define as geeky - and I'd also argue that Barbie, Bratz, and the like are not the most positive of role models for kids. But then again I am a little biased.
admin
13 April, 2011
Hooray for geeks I say!! I'm married to one who never ceases to amaze me with his knowlege of all things strange, and my children are following in his footsteps (there is nothing my three year old can't tell you about Landrovers, even being able to spot the a 90 from a 110 at a distance... but I digress!)
Leigh
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