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What nobody tells you about learning to read

New Ready for Ten blogger Jo Beaufoix says her girls are turning into bookworms but unforeseen awkward moments can have a strange effect.

What nobody tells you about learning to read

With Miss E (nine) being an avid reader, and Miss M (five) sounding out words like a pro, fingers crossed it looks like both my daughters are going to be book lovers. But there are some parts of this process us parents should be warned about. 

Luckily I have a few tips to help you deal with the unexpected moments your new reader will spring upon you. Moments like these…

  1. You can’t control what they will read 
    We’re in public toilets when an eager Miss M begins studying the graffiti. I congratulate her on recognising certain sounds and letters then swiftly draw her attention to the pattern on the floor. 

  2. Scary reading moments can happen anywhere
    For example, doctors’ surgeries. On the walls in the children’s areas they generally have useful visuals on childhood diseases, immunisation and healthy eating. But (even though I have never seen anyone over the age of 12 sit there voluntarily) the kiddie corner seems to have also been deemed an appropriate place to stick the Teenage Sexual Health Display, irresistible to any seven-year-old.

I can guarantee that at some point, like me and journalist Kelly Rose Bradford, you will be confronted with something you wish your child couldn’t read.

My advice for when this happens? Just follow these easy steps and you should be home and dry. 

  • Divert their attention – Is that a squirrel?

  • Explain – That was brilliant reading but it’s not a nice word.

  • Don’t panic. If you’re stuck somewhere and there’s something you would rather your child didn’t read, grab a leaflet, play I spy, or keep a book in your bag to keep them amused.

For information on supporting new and reluctant readers, head over to Ellen’s brilliant Ready For Ten post, encouraging reading.

What interesting words have your new readers seen fit to share with you? I’d love to know.

7 Comments

  • Rftwendy
    Wendy Mallins

    12 May, 2010

    Oooh Jo my girly is just fabulous at reading out those **private** little info-posters on the backs of toilet doors. More than happy to ask me to explain in details what the described medical condition actually is... how you catch it... I can hear sniggers from all other cubicles... particularly when I'm asked "do you have that thing mummy?"

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    Ellen Arnison

    12 May, 2010

    Hi Jo, great post. On the way to school my Boy Two insists on reading out the graffiti. S. E. X mummy what does it mean? Not what you want when you're rushing to school.

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    Ready for Ten admin

    12 May, 2010

    Brilliant suggestions Jo and ones I'm definately going to use - my little one has just started this brilliant reading stage and sometimes it is a bit frightening what they are going to come across.

    Leigh
    Ready for Ten team

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    Jo Beaufoix

    12 May, 2010

    @RFTWendy, it's mad isn't it? I wish they'd think about us poor parents sometimes. :D

  • Rftjo
    Jo Beaufoix

    12 May, 2010

    @RFTEllen, isn't it a nightmare. We've had that one, and a few variations. ;D

    @Ready For Ten admin They always seem to spot exactly the thing you don't want them to spot to. Little monkeys.

  • English mum

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    English Mum

    12 May, 2010

    Haha brilliant. Now mine are older they have become adept at reading over my shoulder, and as you're well aware some of our group emails are not suitable for the under 18s!! I did struggle with 'erm Mum, what's a merkin?' recently!!

  • Rftjo
    Jo Beaufoix

    12 May, 2010

    @English Mum, noooooooo. You are meant to tell us it gets easier. :D

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